Spike Jonze
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Spike Jonze has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Spike Jonze is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Jonze for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Jonze's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Jonze. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Spike Jonze often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Jonze thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Spike is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Spike Jonze has good psychological insight into others.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Jonze's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Spike Jonze is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Spike Jonze that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Jonze's neediness often drives others away. When Spike Jonze does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Jonze will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Spike Jonze will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

Spike Jonze possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Spike Jonze will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Spike does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Spike Jonze wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Spike Jonze appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Spike is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Jonze places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Spike Jonze feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Spike Jonze tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Jonze may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Spike Jonze is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Spike believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

When it comes to love relationships, Jonze is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Spike Jonze has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Spike acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Spike Jonze falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Spike to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Jonze's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Spike Jonze, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.

His interests may lead Spike Jonze to unusual or specialized artistic fields and he has the ability to successfully advertise or promote his projects. Spike could do well in journalism and in writing sexual literature. This astrological configuration also is associated with a marriage swindler!

Spike has the ability to share the abundance of love he feels with many people. But there also is a very strong self-indulgent streak in Jonze, and he has to be careful not to eat or drink too much and feel bad as a result of it.

Love relationships are likely to be on his mind a lot and Spike Jonze seems to live only for love. His power of attraction is unusually strong and Jonze will probably have very deep relationships. His relationships could be fated or he may fall in love with someone of social standing.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Pisces

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Venus in Libra

Venus in 9th house

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Conjunct Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Pluto

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto

Venus Conjunct Pluto/MC