Kaylani Lei
motivation

Although Kaylani Lei comes across as a very private, somewhat wary and enigmatic individual (as described on the previous page), there is another, quite different side to her: a person who really wants to be noticed, known, loved and admired.

Proud and intensely individual, Kaylani Lei really wants to stand out, to be the very best she can be, and to be recognized and appreciated for her unique contributions. Doing something well and being respected for it is extremely important to her, and she cannot tolerate being relegated to the background, taking orders from others, or being "just one of the team". Kaylani Lei must put her personal stamp on whatever she does, and direct her own course in life. Kaylani Lei needs to have a place where she can shine, express herself creatively, and be the one in charge.

Kaylani has big dreams and the determination, spirit, vitality and enthusiasm to realize them. Kaylani Lei also has a noble, romantic heart, and a love of the dramatic, colorful, and extravagant.

For Kaylani Lei, it is true that "the entire world's a stage" and she secretly (or perhaps not so secretly) desires to be the star or hero of the play. Kaylani wants to be great and to receive the love and applause of an adoring audience, even if the "audience" is just one other special person. She needs someone to believe in her and her dreams. Though Lei appears radiantly self-confident and independent, she is actually very dependent on the affirmation, love and recognition of others. She cannot bear going unnoticed or unappreciated.

Kaylani Lei also loves wholeheartedly and generously and really knows how to make the person she loves feel special. Kaylani Lei loves the magic of "being in love" and knows how to keep the romance alive in her relationships. She is also immensely loyal and will defend her loved ones and stand by them to the end - as long as they never offend her pride or betray her trust. However, Kaylani Lei likes to be the strong one in her relationships and she really does not share the leading role very easily. Ideally, Kaylani needs to find a person who is as strong-willed as she is, but who will not try to dominate or compete with her.

Lei's strengths are her zest and love for life, her creative power and her warm and generous heart. Her primary fault is her tendency to be very egocentric, and so concerned with the impression she is making and with her own creative self-expression that she forgets there is another, larger world that does not revolve around her.

Her career, reputation and public image are very important to Lei. Kaylani Lei has a strong desire to be influential or make her mark on the world. She is not satisfied with the personal sphere alone; her ambitions include making a major contribution and receiving broad recognition for her unique effort and gifts. Kaylani Lei may undervalue the personal or inner facet of life.

Lei can be an inspiring leader of a team or group effort. Her dynamism and energy evokes the same in others, and she sees healthy competition between people as a plus. Generally, Kaylani Lei enjoys fine health as well.

Her emotions are very intense and Kaylani Lei is excited quite easily. Love is very important to her and she is constantly seeking emotional fulfillment, but she will not waste time with casual relationships.

Kaylani Lei has a great need for security which she may seek in a partner who could be older than her and perhaps married before. Kaylani Lei probably feels restrained in expressing affection, giving the impression of being cool and indifferent toward those she loves.

Maintaining relationships with friends and associates is very important to Kaylani Lei and she keeps in touch with them through her shared interests. Her friends are likely to be very supportive to Lei in everything she does.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Ascendant in Scorpio and Sun in Leo

Sun in Leo

Sun in 10th house

Sun Sextile Mars

Sun Conjunct Moon/Pluto

Sun Conjunct Venus/Saturn

Sun Conjunct N. Node/MC