drive and ambition
Kaylani Lei seesaws between being too pushy, confrontational and insistent on doing things her way, and being too eager to please, without a clear, definite goal of her own. Kaylani Lei strives for a balance between acting independently and assertively - and working cooperatively and interdependently with others. She may feel frustrated at times that she cannot simply do what HE wants and that she must always accommodate the needs and desires of others. Or she may feel hesitant to act in a positive, assertive manner if she does not have the support and approval of other people. Either way, she is not a loner. Kaylani Lei achieves her goals by collaborating and joining forces with others, by being a team player. She is very concerned with the concept of fairness and becomes quite indignant and vocal if she senses someone is being taken advantage of. Kaylani Lei avoids extremism and favors a balanced, moderate approach to living. She is unlikely to push herself too hard or to become fanatically driven to reach her goals.
Asserting herself and being direct and forceful about what she wants is often very difficult for Kaylani. Though she may have a great deal of energy and drive, Kaylani Lei lacks confidence or simply the desire to put herself and her interests first. On the positive side, Lei can be very unselfish, working more for the benefit of others than for herself.
However, Kaylani Lei denies her own desires and needs too much, and she is likely to secretly become very angry, which will sabotage her finest efforts.
When Kaylani Lei wants something, she goes after it with passionate zeal and is sometimes so driven by her desire that she loses all objectivity. Kaylani gets so deeply involved in whatever she is pursuing that she becomes one-sided, even fanatical. Strong-willed and stubborn, Kaylani Lei insists on having her way no matter the cost. She is fascinated with power. Lei often tries to overpower anything or anyone she perceives as an obstacle, if not physically, then by the force of her will. Lei can be ruthless and impersonal when it comes to achieving her ambitions and goals in life. Kaylani Lei has enormous energy and is capable of extraordinary effort and great achievement. Lei can also become a compulsive workaholic.
Somewhat self-willed and obstinate, Lei tends to withdraw from everything that she deem unnecessary. She may prefer to be alone and is inclined to cut herself off from other people frequently, resulting in loneliness and depression.
Kaylani Lei's capacity to tolerate tension and ambivalence, compromise, and endure discomfort helps her to confront the challenges and difficulties in life. Remaining steadfast in the midst of crisis or sudden change, as well as knowing when to wait and when to make necessary changes are manifestations of these skills. Kaylani's timing is usually good.
Kaylani Lei's profession is likely to involve children, women, consulting or nourishing, or she is likely to use her nurturing, emotional, childlike qualities to appeal to the public in some way. Kaylani Lei does well in any business that involves responding to people's emotional needs and tastes.
Kaylani has confidence in herself and a healthy self-assured attitude. She makes up her own mind and has a clear idea of where she is headed. Kaylani Lei does not feel the need for recognition from others, but is likely to receive recognition anyway.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Mars in Libra
Mars in 12th house
Mars Conjunct Pluto
Mars Conjunct Saturn/Asc.
Saturn Sextile Uranus
Moon Sextile MC
MC Conjunct Sun/Mercury