challenges and difficulties
Kato Kaelin has a great capacity for self-denial in the pursuit of a long-range goal. Kato is capable of hard work and persistent labor, but he may lack the capacity for joy and play. Kato Kaelin often feels burdened by life's demands and responsibilities, and may envy those who seem to attract what they want in life without a great deal of personal effort.
There is a very judgmental, stern, and uncompromising side of Kaelin's that may inhibit him a great deal. Kato Kaelin must avoid becoming cumbersome and cynical, or a rather callous, sophisticated adult whose sense of practicality and realism rob him of the playful, imaginative side of life.
His attitude toward religion, philosophy, and politics is very conservative and possibly narrow or rigid. On the one hand, Kato Kaelin may believe in nothing that is speculative or intangible, requiring proof for any idea presented to him. Each idea is thoroughly and systematically examined. On the other hand, Kato may tenaciously cling to his grand philosophical or metaphysical beliefs and opinions, refusing to modify them or to be open and receptive to others' insights and perspectives.
His overall outlook on life is serious, and Kato Kaelin may feel that life or God will punish him if he does not watch his step!
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Kato Kaelin instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Kato Kaelin needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Kato stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Kato Kaelin has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Kato Kaelin feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Kato Kaelin calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Kato Kaelin needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in his work and his relationships with co-workers, employers, and employees that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Integrating the qualities described above into Kaelin's work and daily routine will lead to greater satisfaction, improved health, and personal growth.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Kato Kaelin back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
The tendency for self-indulgence, laziness, and over-reliance on the generosity or affection of others, as well as making love relationships, social life and superficial pleasures more important than anything else in his life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Capricorn
Saturn in 9th house
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 6th house
N. Node Opposition Venus