approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Kato's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Kato Kaelin comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Kato Kaelin - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Kato Kaelin" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Kato a little better. This page describes the disguise Kaelin wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Kato Kaelin has a sensible and realistic outlook on life and his two feet are always planted firmly on the ground (though he may, on occasion, have his head in the clouds). Others often see Kaelin as a rock of strength, solid, reliable, dependable, and constant. He is, in fact, amazingly consistent for he possesses great powers of endurance and does not like to make changes or adjustments to his regular routine. Kato does things deliberately and methodically and does not easily accommodate the unexpected. Though he has a gentle, even soft, appearance, Kato Kaelin is enormously strong-willed and stubborn. He follows his own pace and refuses to be rushed or pushed into anything before he feels sure about it. Kaelin can be coaxed and persuaded by charm, beauty, love or affection - but never forced. He will not fight either, but simply stubbornly resist any attempt at being coerced into doing something he does not want to do.
When Kaelin has a purpose, he is extremely fixed, immovable, and bullheaded about it. His obstinacy is often infuriating to others, especially since it takes much provocation to make him flare up or respond to their anger. Kato Kaelin appears calm, unruffled, and unemotional most of the time, but behind his easygoing and peaceable appearance there lies great strength. When it comes to a contest of wills, Kato often wins simply due to his relentless persistence and his ability to outlast just about anyone. Another reason for his reluctance to make changes is his very strong need for security. Kato is most comfortable in stable, relatively unchanging conditions and he also has a strong desire for tangible security - a home of his own, money in the bank, job security, etc. The flip side of Kaelin's hankering for permanence is that he easily gets caught up in a rut and will stay in a familiar situation (e.g. job, marriage) long after it has lost its vitality and interest.
Kato Kaelin has a keen appreciation of the natural world and he derives great joy from the down-to-earth comforts of the physical world, with its myriad of delights. He is quite sensual in a very natural, wholesome way and he knows how to enjoy himself. Kaelin is appealing to the opposite sex in an earthy way. He is also a great lover of beauty and his tastes are basically conventional or classic - not modern.
To others, he may come across as very gentle, malleable and easily taken in. As a result, people may take advantage of Kato Kaelin, especially through his pity or sympathy. If Kato seems to be continually disappointed in or deceived by others, he should try to see how his own naiveté may be a contributing factor.
To others, Kato Kaelin appears capable, mature and down to earth. Even when he was young, there was a certain practicality and responsible air about Kato that inspired people to rely on him. Kaelin keeps his cool in most situations.
There is a certain intensity, charisma or compelling attractiveness about Kato Kaelin that may have little to do with his physical features. It is energy, a subtle sexuality that he emanates. Moreover, Kaelin tends to do everything wholeheartedly and with passion, which is quite fascinating to other people. His instincts and psychological perceptions about others are quite incisive.
At times his desire to impress other people, or be important or popular may make Kaelin do things that go against his better judgment. Even Kato's sincere attempts to be generous or helpful may be misinterpreted, or seen as pompousness or interference. Kato Kaelin needs to be aware of his tendency to overdo - to go all out - even when it is not appropriate.
Kato has strong leadership qualities and finds it natural to take charge of his family environment. He throws himself wholeheartedly into all of his endeavors and does not like others to make demands on him, but Kato Kaelin will willingly give of himself in most situations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Neptune Opposition Asc.
Saturn Trine Asc.
Pluto Trine Asc.
Jupiter Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Moon/Mars