Mickey Spillane
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Mickey Spillane denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Mickey Spillane needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Mickey Spillane also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Mickey Spillane a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Mickey's past are especially dear to him.

Mickey Spillane may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Mickey Spillane cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Spillane's motto.

Mickey Spillane has a cheerful temperament and a harmonious disposition. Because of his easy personality, Spillane gets along easily with others. Home and family relationships are precious to Mickey and his home is likely to be large and lavish.

He is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Mickey Spillane does not like to be alone and he always keeps his house open for his friends and acquaintances.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Mickey Spillane values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Mickey desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Spillane, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Mickey Spillane appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to Mickey Spillane, and he has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Spillane and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Mickey Spillane appreciates artistic people.

Mickey Spillane has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find himself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Spillane could become quite obsessed by someone and he has a tendency to control and manipulate his relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon Opposition Jupiter/MC

Moon Conjunct Uranus/N. Node

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Opposition Mars/Pluto