approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of John 5's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way John 5 comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner John 5 - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner John 5" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know John 5 a little better. This page describes the disguise John Lowery wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, John 5 will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. John 5 has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. John 5 very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, John Lowery is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often John 5 will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes John Lowery's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. John 5 appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that John Lowery is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for John 5 possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to John 5 - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. John 5 does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for John 5.
Others see John 5 as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face John Lowery shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for John 5 usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
He is direct, honest, and to the point - some might say excessively so. However, no one has to guess who John 5 is or what he wants - he is pretty much up front. John 5 radiates a refreshing enthusiasm and vigor when he is at his best. He seems to enjoy competition without taking it terribly seriously.
John 5 has a tendency to react violently to the influence of his surroundings and to throw himself headlong into everything he does, suffering the consequences later on. Until John 5 learns to alter his conduct, there are likely to be many upsets in his relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Mars Trine Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Moon/Pluto