John Derek
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. John Derek is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, John Derek is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Derek works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to John, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
John Derek tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes John feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. John Derek also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Derek to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise John Derek may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
John Derek has a great interest in everything and everyone around him and is constantly looking for people with whom he can establish deep inner relationships. His judgments are based on his personal feelings and he has a strong need to be with others.
John Derek tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. John may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.
Sensitive and sentimental, John Derek is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Derek to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. John Derek seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. John likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
John Derek craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. John loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Derek.
His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not John Derek possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. John may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. John Derek may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
John's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times John Derek is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Derek is to being left out or unappreciated.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to John Derek in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Derek is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest John Derek at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
His romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. John Derek longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Derek tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 10th house
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Neptune
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 8th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Opposition Saturn/Uranus
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