Though he may appear to be a leader (as described on the previous page), Jay Sebring prefers to be an equal partner rather than an autocrat. Even when he is in a position of authority, Sebring seeks the opinions of others before acting. Inside he may feel more indecisive or concerned with what other people think than his confident, proud bearing would suggest.
Harmony and balance are his keynotes. Jay Sebring instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and he is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Jay does all he can to avoid conflict and discord. His spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and he often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Sebring since he can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make his own decisions. Sebring will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. He prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on his own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Jay Sebring, and he has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Jay Sebring invests a great deal of his energy in personal love relationships and he is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Jay Sebring seeks a partner who is his equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. He makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and he enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Sebring perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Jay Sebring appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in his personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to him. If Jay Sebring fights about anything, it is often about something he feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Jay. He believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Jay Sebring also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Sebring dresses and furnishes his home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to him.
The urge to learn and communicate is essential to Jay Sebring, and he expresses himself very well through writing, teaching or sharing ideas and information. Sebring is persuasive and fluent with language.
Restless and inquisitive, Jay enjoys being mobile and taking short trips and excursions in order to see for himself what is going on in the world around him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Leo and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 3rd house