Jay Sebring
in Relationships

Jay Sebring responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Sebring often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Jay Sebring must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Jay's need for times of withdrawal.

Jay Sebring is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Jay Sebring takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Sebring gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Jay Sebring makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Jay Sebring needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.

There is a side to Jay Sebring that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Sebring can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Sebring. If Jay's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Jay Sebring can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Jay is particularly prone to.

Jay Sebring tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Jay feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Jay Sebring also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Sebring to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Jay Sebring may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

His relationships have an emotional overtone and Jay Sebring has a strong desire to share his feelings with others. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Jay enjoys many pleasant meeting with them.

In love relationships, Jay Sebring desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Jay "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Sebring can be very demanding of his love partner. Jay Sebring tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Jay Sebring is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to Jay Sebring and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, Jay shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Sebring happy.

Jay Sebring is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Jay Sebring pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

Jay Sebring loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Sebring may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Jay Sebring tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. His desire is always very strong and Sebring resents authority and likes to be different. Jay Sebring may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at his disposal.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 11th house

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon Opposition Mercury/N. Node

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 4th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Opposition Moon/Uranus