challenges and difficulties
Jay has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave him feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with his peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Sebring.
Jay Sebring takes both his work and his health very seriously, but he may demand so much of himself at work that he compromises his health. Jay can become a workaholic, not so much because he has lofty ambitions, but because he never feels like he has done enough. Jay Sebring is overly responsible or overly conscientious at work, so much so that he may not enjoy it at all.
Sebring can also get overly involved in self-improvement or his health, and he tends to be a bit of a hypochondriac.
At times Jay Sebring struggles with nebulous worries, insecurities and fears that may be difficult to pinpoint. Mostly, he may be afraid of getting acquainted with the inner workings of his mind and soul, feeling uneasy with anything irrational or intangible. Jay Sebring has to work hard to overcome being overly serious regarding the spiritual side of life, especially if his religious upbringing emphasized guilt and retribution. Reorienting himself in the direction of spiritual optimism will do much to lift the cloud of worry that settles over Jay occasionally.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jay Sebring instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jay Sebring needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Jay Sebring's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Sebring's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Sebring's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Sebring's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress he is likely to become overly focused on himself and his own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Sebring's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Jay Sebring needs to strike a balance between doing for himself and doing for others, by discovering how Sebring's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Jay Sebring to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Jay Sebring has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 6th house
Saturn Quincunx Neptune
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 7th house