challenges and difficulties
Jay Sean takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Jay enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Jay Sean also fears entrapment in close relationships.
His childhood or his relationship with his parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Jay from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Jay Sean feels that he was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether he actually was or not. His early life - at least as Sean remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of his needs and feelings. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Jay Sean needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Jay accomplish this task.
His aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Jay Sean pursues his aims in a systematic, disciplined and thorough manner, and he is willing to take his time, advancing slowly and steadily toward his goal.
Sometimes Jay Sean underestimates what is possible, and holds himself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
His vitality tends to be a bit low and Jay may have to fight against the tendency to be inactive. Easily discouraged, Jay Sean is inclined toward pessimism. Perhaps his upbringing was too authoritative, causing problems in his relationship with his parents.
Sean may find it difficult to relate to people and express his feelings, especially in love relationships. On the hand, Jay Sean wants relationships yet on the other, he would rather be by himself. A sense of personal inadequacy makes Jay withdraw from others and feel lonely as a result.
Jay Sean tends to be somewhat gloomy and may feel that life is difficult and that his will is blocked in some way. Jay may find it hard to make decisions and to concentrate on his goals, which he may consider unworthy.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jay Sean instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jay Sean needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Jay Sean's path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Sean's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Jay Sean is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Jay should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Jay Sean can offer the world at large.
It is in his relationships with others that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Jay Sean between acting spontaneously and being true to himself versus modifying himself or his behavior to suit others. Jay Sean seesaws between being inordinately concerned with his self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about him. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Sean's task.
Jay has an inspiring, trustworthy and courteous manner, bringing lots of friends and acquaintances with similar interests into his life. His parental home is probably very harmonious and Jay Sean feels strongly connected with his family.
Sean cooperates with others in a vigorous and energetic way. His motto seems to be "one for all and all for one", and he feels strongly connected with others. In fact, Jay Sean looks upon other people as necessary for a worthwhile life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 4th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Opposition Sun/Mars
Saturn Opposition Venus/Mars
Saturn Opposition Mars/MC
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Opposition Sun/Moon
N. Node Opposition Moon/Mars