Jay Sean
in Relationships

Open and generous, Jay Sean enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Sean rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Jay always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Jay Sean often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Sean, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Jay Sean to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Jay's aspirations and ideals. Jay Sean also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Jay Sean cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Jay Sean has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as Jay takes risks on an impulse or a whim.

He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Jay Sean cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Sean's motto.

Although Sean gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Jay Sean to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Jay Sean; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Jay Sean is apt to do more than his fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Jay Sean enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Jay wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Jay is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Jay Sean feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Jay Sean is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Jay Sean pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Jay Sean cannot or will not hold onto it. Jay Sean has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Sean's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Jay freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Sean could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.

Sean also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Jay Sean just wants to have a good time.

Jay's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Jay Sean is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Sean is to being left out or unappreciated.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Jay Sean and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Jay allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Jay Sean, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

When it comes to love relationships, Sean is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Jay Sean has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Jay acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Jay Sean is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Jay and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Sean's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 5th house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Venus in Aries

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Opposition Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Trine Uranus