challenges and difficulties
Javier has difficulty asserting his will and desires directly and openly. He may also suppress his anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in himself are important tasks for Bardem.
Bardem is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Javier Bardem does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Javier Bardem better than being with groups of his own peers.
Javier Bardem tends to be his own worst enemy, demanding inhuman perfection of himself and harshly criticizing or persecuting himself when he does not measure up. Perhaps circumstances or relationships in his life have been extremely difficult and demanding, reinforcing Javier's belief that he must struggle alone.
He is capable of tremendous effort and of overcoming great odds and handicaps. Through these efforts Javier Bardem develops his power and inner strength. However, Javier Bardem should not make life harder than it is. He must give himself permission to let up sometimes, and to realize that he is only human.
Bardem forges ahead diligently, but may have to work harder than others to gain recognition for his efforts. Reserved and shy, Javier Bardem tends to build a wall between himself and others and he seems to be more receptive to older and more mature people.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Javier Bardem instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Javier Bardem needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Javier Bardem - so much so that he seeks them out at his own expense. When he is under stress, Bardem tends to look outside himself for approval or answers, and he leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge his own path through life is a key factor in his self-development.
Javier Bardem is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about his intentions or desires, and he can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Bardem's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Javier Bardem needs to cultivate his ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on his own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in any involvements he has with teams, clubs, organizations, networks, and the like that Javier Bardem is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above need to be channeled into some sort of group effort or experience, or have some impact on society at large.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Javier Bardem back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Javier Bardem tends to over-rely on luck or grace, living for tomorrow and gambling. Javier is overconfident and tends to overextend himself and take on more than is humanly possible. Javier is often dogmatic about his philosophy of life or religious beliefs.
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Javier Bardem seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
Javier Bardem has a friendly, open and sociable demeanor and a strong desire to cultivate relationships with warm and congenial people. He may enjoy participating in artistic events and he likes to associate with art lovers.
Javier Bardem seems to be a loner, rather serious and quiet. Perhaps he is burdened by family conditions that weigh him down. Javier prefers to associate with older or more authoritative people and is happier in a subordinate position.
Javier Bardem tends to have far-reaching associations and a strong desire to be involved with people of high society. He is likely to achieve great success through joint ventures with others and could do well in some form of political activity.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Quincunx Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Asc.
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 11th house
N. Node Opposition Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Venus
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Saturn
N. Node Opposition Jupiter/Pluto