Mark-Paul does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Mark-Paul Gosselaar would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Mark-Paul Gosselaar avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Gosselaar. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Mark-Paul, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
Mark-Paul Gosselaar frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
Gosselaar identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Mark-Paul Gosselaar flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Mark-Paul Gosselaar feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Mark-Paul Gosselaar to learn. Mark-Paul Gosselaar should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Mark-Paul Gosselaar values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Mark-Paul desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Gosselaar, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Mark-Paul Gosselaar appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Mark-Paul is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Gosselaar places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Mark-Paul Gosselaar feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Mark-Paul Gosselaar is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Gosselaar is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses his desires honestly.
Mark-Paul Gosselaar tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Gosselaar may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Mark-Paul Gosselaar is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Mark-Paul believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
When it comes to love relationships, Gosselaar is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Mark-Paul Gosselaar has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Mark-Paul acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Gosselaar may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. Mark-Paul Gosselaar craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Gosselaar, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 12th house
Moon Opposition Neptune
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 9th house
Venus Trine Mars
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Square Uranus