challenges and difficulties
Gosselaar doubts his own intelligence and mental capacities, and he may work very hard at studies in order to compensate for this. Mark-Paul is often overly serious and disinterested in light or superficial conversation. Spontaneous communication, social give-and-take, and making small talk are likely to be difficult for him.
Mark-Paul Gosselaar has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Mark-Paul limits himself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in himself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Mark-Paul Gosselaar difficult to get to know intimately, as Gosselaar tends to distance himself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Mark-Paul dislikes tense or frustrating situations and has a strong desire to free himself from them. Acting quickly at times, Mark-Paul suddenly overcomes his inner inhibitions. Mark-Paul Gosselaar also has the ability to grasp difficult situations correctly and to use them for his advancement.
Mark-Paul Gosselaar has a desire to break away from tradition and to free himself from restricting conditions. Somewhat inflexible and rigid, he may suddenly become inhibited before he initiates his objectives, which could work out to Gosselaar's disadvantage.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Mark-Paul Gosselaar instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Mark-Paul Gosselaar needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Mark-Paul Gosselaar to become distracted from his path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to him. Mark-Paul Gosselaar needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Mark-Paul directs his attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", he is apt to dabble, scatter his energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for his life and aligning his daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Gosselaar's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward his personal development.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Mark-Paul Gosselaar to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Mark-Paul Gosselaar has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Mark-Paul Gosselaar back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Mark-Paul Gosselaar's rigid self-control overly restricts his ability to freely express himself or explore possibilities. He is excessively concerned with work, duty and security. He tends to be fearful, judgmental towards himself or others, and can feel alone and cut off from sources of nourishment outside himself. Mark-Paul Gosselaar should try to learn to relax and recognize that not everything is Gosselaar's responsibility.
Mark-Paul likes to be on the go constantly and tends to have a hectic family life. He knows how to eliminate competition, but should guard against rising to the top in his position at the expense of other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Gemini
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Uranus
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/Uranus
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Uranus/MC