Hugh Robert Mill challenges and difficulties
Hugh Robert Mill has a penchant for order and precision, and an almost compulsive attention to detail. He is often hypercritical and can be such a demanding perfectionist that he discourages himself or others from even attempting something that will not be done exactly the way Mill knows it should be done.
He frequently over analyze or pick things apart mentally. Hugh Robert Mill may be something of a hypochondriac also. Hugh must learn that he does not have to rationally understand everything in order for it to be valid, and also to relax his unnecessarily high or strict standards.
Mill is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Hugh Robert Mill does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Hugh Robert Mill better than being with groups of his own peers.
At times Hugh Robert Mill struggles with nebulous worries and insecurities, fears which may be difficult to name. Mostly, he may be afraid of getting acquainted with the inner workings of his mind and soul, feeling uneasy with anything irrational or intangible. Hugh Robert Mill has to work hard to overcome being overly serious regarding the spiritual side of life, especially if his religious upbringing emphasized guilt and retribution. Reorienting himself in the direction of spiritual optimism will do much to lift the cloud of worry that settles over Hugh occasionally.
Hugh Robert Mill tends to be very sensitive to his surroundings and is strongly influenced by the prevailing conditions around him. Hugh may feels that he has more obligations than he can properly handle, and that it is hopeless to even try.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Hugh Robert Mill instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Hugh Robert Mill needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Hugh Robert Mill has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that he is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Hugh Robert Mill needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, he has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, he may encourage others to depend on him emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Hugh Robert Mill needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in his way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Hugh Robert Mill is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Mill's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, he needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
He is very social minded and it is easy for Hugh Robert Mill to show his affection. His family or community probably provided good possibilities for his development. Mill may love to show off a little and he thrives on being involved with others in joyful group activities.
Hugh Robert Mill has a strong desire to acquire a leading position in his community. Although he is very capable of assuming leadership, Hugh also has a tendency to impose his will upon others. But in spite of that, he is likely to be successful.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Virgo
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Quincunx Neptune
Saturn Opposition Moon/Neptune
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Sun/Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Mars/MC
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