Hugh Robert Mill
approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Hugh's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Hugh Robert Mill comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Hugh Robert Mill - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Hugh Robert Mill" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Hugh a little better. This page describes the disguise Mill wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Hugh Robert Mill will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Hugh has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Hugh Robert Mill very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Mill is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Hugh Robert Mill will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Mill's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Hugh Robert Mill appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Mill is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Hugh possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Hugh Robert Mill - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Hugh Robert Mill does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Hugh.
Others see Hugh Robert Mill as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Mill shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Hugh Robert Mill usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Bright, alert, quick of tongue and/or of movement, there is youthfulness about Hugh's manner and appearance regardless of his chronological age. Hugh Robert Mill also always appears busy and active, and somewhat restless. Mill needs mental stimulation from his environment, or he will rapidly get bored.
Hugh has an appealing physical appearance and this, along with his winning ways, is apt to make him a favorite in his immediate environment. Hugh Robert Mill is the "easy" one, and he knows how to please others. However, Mill must not take his personal charm for granted, because he may also seem vain or too needy for approval.
Hugh Robert Mill appears to be liberal and open-minded. Anything new, innovative, unusual, or off the beaten track arouses his interest. Mill infuses his environment with enthusiasm, new life and excitement. Though not intentionally disruptive, Hugh Robert Mill does enjoy startling or waking people up a bit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Mercury Trine Asc.
Venus Trine Asc.
Uranus Trine Asc.