George S. Patton
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. George S. Patton denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". George S. Patton needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. George S. Patton also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Though he wants close relationships very much, George S. Patton often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Patton is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Patton's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, George S. Patton is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. George S. Patton cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Patton's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest George at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. George S. Patton is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
George S. Patton may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security George desires.
Patton is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in his relationships that love and cherish him. George S. Patton prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to George.
George is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness makes George S. Patton very popular.
George S. Patton is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Patton is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses his desires honestly.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague George S. Patton and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy George allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for George S. Patton, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
When it comes to love relationships, Patton is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, George S. Patton has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if George acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Patton may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. George S. Patton craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Patton, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel George S. Patton to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Patton may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, George S. Patton will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 8th house
Moon Trine Neptune
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 7th house
Venus Trine Mars
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Square Uranus
Venus Quincunx Pluto
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