Fyodor Dostoevsky
in Relationships
Fyodor does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Fyodor Dostoevsky would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Fyodor Dostoevsky avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Dostoevsky. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Fyodor Dostoevsky has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Dostoevsky also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Fyodor, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
Fyodor Dostoevsky has a very attractive personality and loves to socialize. Because of this he is very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Fyodor Dostoevsky also has a sense of beauty and may be interested in some kind of artistic work or hobby.
Emotionally excitable, Dostoevsky tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Fyodor as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Fyodor Dostoevsky seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.
His feelings depend on the conditions in his environment and therefore Fyodor Dostoevsky could be subject to moods. He is likely to have spiritual or life experiences that touch him deeply. Fyodor Dostoevsky could also become involved in situations where others take advantage of him.
He is hard-working and tends to work till he collapses. Forceful and aggressive, Fyodor Dostoevsky comes on strong and has a tendency to be abusive when frustrated. Dostoevsky must learn to relax in order to avoid suffering total emotional or physical exhaustion.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Fyodor Dostoevsky cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Dostoevsky's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Fyodor at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Fyodor Dostoevsky is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Fyodor Dostoevsky may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Fyodor desires.
Dostoevsky is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Fyodor Dostoevsky is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Fyodor uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Fyodor Dostoevsky does.
He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Fyodor Dostoevsky falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Fyodor to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Dostoevsky's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Fyodor Dostoevsky, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Fyodor Dostoevsky yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Dostoevsky frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Fyodor Dostoevsky does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Fyodor Dostoevsky experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Fyodor Dostoevsky has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Fyodor Dostoevsky can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Fyodor Dostoevsky is extremely sensitive to his surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Dostoevsky tends to avoid the truth about himself and his relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 6th house
Moon Opposition Sun/Venus
Moon Opposition Sun/Uranus
Moon Opposition Sun/Neptune
Moon Conjunct Mars/Pluto
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 1st house
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Conjunct Neptune
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Neptune
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