challenges and difficulties
Fabien has difficulty asserting his will and desires directly and openly. He may also suppress his anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in himself are important tasks for Galthiť.
Fabien may be plagued by fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death. He strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for him.
On another level entirely, Fabien Galthiť is very careful about joining forces, and especially his material resources, with others. Galthiť wants to keep his own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Fabien Galthiť tends to be his own worst enemy, demanding inhuman perfection of himself and harshly criticizing or persecuting himself when he does not measure up. Perhaps circumstances or relationships in his life have been extremely difficult and demanding, reinforcing Fabien's belief that he must struggle alone.
He is capable of tremendous effort and of overcoming great odds and handicaps. Through these efforts Fabien Galthiť develops his power and inner strength. However, Fabien Galthiť should not make life harder than it is. He must give himself permission to let up sometimes, and to realize that he is only human.
Fabien Galthiť tends to have a pessimistic outlook and he seems to be plagued by deep inner conflicts, which could severely undermine his strength. Self-critical and uncertain about his goals, Fabien feels that he cannot live up to his ideals and ends up disappointed.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Fabien Galthiť instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Fabien Galthiť needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Fabien Galthiť - so much so that he seeks them out at his own expense. When he is under stress, Galthiť tends to look outside himself for approval or answers, and he leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge his own path through life is a key factor in his self-development.
Fabien Galthiť is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about his intentions or desires, and he can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Galthiť's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Fabien Galthiť needs to cultivate his ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on his own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Fabien Galthiť to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Fabien Galthiť has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Fabien Galthiť back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Fabien Galthiť tends to over-rely on luck or grace, living for tomorrow and gambling. Fabien is overconfident and tends to overextend himself and take on more than is humanly possible. Fabien is often dogmatic about his philosophy of life or religious beliefs.
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Fabien Galthiť seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
The following are specific activities that will support Fabien Galthiť in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Galthiť, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Fabien Galthiť should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put himself "out there", be seen and shine. Fabien needs to be willing to take on a leading role. He needs to be a hero - a protagonist in his own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities he possesses. Doing creative work that he is proud of - anything that comes from Galthiť's heart and bears the stamp of Galthiť's individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than he is a way for Fabien Galthiť to grow and become more whole himself.
He is gay and cheerful in the company of others and happy to be with them. Fabien Galthiť is fond of telling jokes and is likely to entertain everyone. His relationships with others tend to be for a common purpose.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 8th house
Saturn Quincunx Pluto
Saturn Opposition Neptune/Pluto
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Opposition Jupiter/Uranus