challenges and difficulties
Harry is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Debbie Harry may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Debbie.
She is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with her duty, her public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. Debbie Harry understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and she is capable of much self-discipline and patience once she sets her sights on a goal.
But Debbie Harry is very judgmental and hard on herself if she fails to attain success, and she can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize her efforts.
Harry is aware of her own shortcomings and is able to overcome many frustrations and limitations. She concentrates on her aims and goes about achieving them, even if she has to sacrifice something in the process.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Debbie Harry instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Debbie Harry needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Debbie Harry is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Debbie Harry's growth. Debbie Harry needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her public life and career that Debbie Harry is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Harry's reputation and standing in her community or professional circle, as well as how Debbie Harry achieves her important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Debbie Harry in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Harry, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Debbie Harry should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put herself "out there", be seen and shine. Debbie needs to be willing to take on a leading role. She needs to be a hero - a protagonist in her own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities she possesses. Doing creative work that she is proud of - anything that comes from Harry's heart and bears the stamp of Harry's individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than she is a way for Debbie Harry to grow and become more whole herself.
Debbie Harry should foster self-discipline and learn to handle responsibility. She may shoulder an inordinate amount of responsibility as well as burdens that sometimes limit Harry's activities and opportunities in life. However, this is a maturing and ultimately empowering process. She is also likely to be offered positions of tremendous responsibility, whether Debbie really wants such jobs or not, usually because she has invested real effort and made some sort of substantial contribution.
There may be considerable obstacles in her path - more adversity than others seem to face - and Harry's task is to learn to cope with pressure and persevere.
Debbie Harry has a strong desire to share her opinions with others and is inclined to seek out people who have the same ideas that she has. She may enjoy studying and developing her intellectual interests with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 10th house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto/MC
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Conjunct Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/MC