Debbie Harry approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Debbie's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Debbie Harry comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Debbie Harry - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Debbie Harry" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Debbie a little better. This page describes the disguise Harry wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Modest, unobtrusive, and often rather quiet or shy, she is a person who is content to stay in the background or to serve as an assistant, in the supporting role rather than in the lead. She is quite humble in her own assessment of herself; she seeks perfection, with a tendency to be overly self-critical. No matter how well she does something, Debbie Harry always sees the flaws in it and how it could be improved. Often Harry will simply refuse to attempt something because she feels she cannot meet her own high standards.
Debbie Harry has an eye for detail and she gets upset when something is not done just so, usually something others consider rather inconsequential or trivial. She is hard to please and her relationships with others may suffer because of this. Debbie Harry also has refined sensitivities and is very discriminating and particular in her choice of foods, clothes, friends, artwork, etc. Order in Harry's environment is very important to Harry.
Harry steps into situations rather cautiously, and not without realistically assessing all of the risks and potential advantages involved. Unless something is a safe bet, she is unlikely to dive into it. Debbie Harry tends to underestimate her own capacities and to lack confidence and trust in life, which inhibits her spontaneity. Worrying is a bad habit of hers. On the other hand, Debbie rarely falls flat on her face and what she does, she does very well.
Others see Debbie Harry as a self-sufficient and rather self-contained person. Harry has a strong sense of propriety. Politeness, good manners, and correct behavior are important to her. Her clear, cool, objective and non-emotional attitude is apparent to others first, and though she is really quite helpful and caring, she does not radiate much sympathy and as a result, others may not see the helpful side as readily. Debbie may seem more businesslike and factual as well as more conservative than she really is at heart. She is the person others might go to for technical advice or an unbiased opinion, but not for emotional support.
She is keenly observant, intelligent, and has a great desire for learning and for self-improvement, but she is not especially ambitious and is often satisfied with a rather simple, unglamorous position in life.
Debbie Harry radiates a sense of good will, optimism, and trust, which inspires hope in other people. Her presence has a healing effect on others even without Harry's awareness. Though Harry appears modest and content in a humble position, she has a sense of inner greatness or worthiness that is unmistakable. Debbie Harry also has a balance of confidence and humility, of faith and caution, that makes her very appealing to others and she has many more admirers than she realizes.
The effect of her childhood experiences, and the beliefs and attitudes Debbie learned while young, are clearly apparent in her demeanor. All is well on the surface, but when trouble arises, Debbie Harry seems childish and needy. When she is in calmer waters, she appears to have a vulnerable, trusting nature that brings out the mothering instinct in others.
Debbie has an appealing physical appearance, which - along with her winning ways - is likely to make her a favorite in her immediate environment. Debbie Harry is the "easy" one, and she knows how to please others. However, Harry must not take her personal charm for granted, because she may also come across as vain or too needy for approval.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Virgo Rising
Jupiter Conjunct Ascendant in Virgo
Moon Opposition Asc.
Venus Trine Asc.
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