Though Fit Finlay may seem breezy, independent and freedom loving (as mentioned in the previous chapter), he is in fact not completely happy without a partner. He enjoys being on the move and exploring new territory, but wants a traveling companion! Fit Finlay yearns for fulfilling, yet non-restricting relationships.
Harmony and balance are his keynotes. Dave Finlay instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and he is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Dave Finlay does all he can to avoid conflict and discord. His spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and he often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Fit Finlay since he can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make his own decisions. Fit Finlay will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. He prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on his own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Dave Finlay, and he has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Dave Finlay invests a great deal of his energy in personal love relationships and he is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Dave Finlay seeks a partner who is his equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. He makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and he enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Fit Finlay perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Dave Finlay appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in his personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to him. If Dave Finlay fights about anything, it is often about something he feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Dave Finlay. He believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Dave Finlay also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Fit Finlay dresses and furnishes his home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to him.
His career, reputation and public image are very important to Fit Finlay. Dave Finlay has a strong desire to be influential or make his mark on the world. He is not satisfied with the personal sphere alone; his ambitions include making a major contribution and receiving broad recognition for his unique effort and gifts. Dave Finlay may undervalue the personal or inner facet of life.
Dave Finlay is loving and well loved by others, and has a strong need for relationships that offer kindness, friendship and affection. His artistic and creative powers are also well developed and Dave Finlay does everything in a harmonious, gracious, pleasing manner. Aesthetics are very important to Fit Finlay, as are his personal appearance and attractiveness.
Dave Finlay has a pleasant and dreamy disposition with considerable romantic imagination. Dave Finlay has a strong longing for love, but he does not see others very clearly and may experience many disappointments in his emotional relationships.
Fit Finlay has a strong will and great determination and is willing to work hard to reach his goals. Dave Finlay often takes on more than his share and labors untiringly, sparing himself no pain in his work. Dave Finlay should guard against over-exerting himself physically.
Dave Finlay has a powerful personality and a tendency to run roughshod over others. Dave Finlay tends to inflict his will on them whether or not they are receptive. He is likely to gain respect from others through the demonstration of physical strength and bravery.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Sagittarius and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 10th house
Sun Conjunct Venus
Sun Conjunct Venus/Neptune
Sun Conjunct Saturn/Pluto
Sun Conjunct Pluto/Asc.