Dave Finlay
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Dave Finlay should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Fit Finlay often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Fit Finlay's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Dave Finlay insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Dave Finlay does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Dave Finlay feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Dave Finlay a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Dave Finlay's past are especially dear to him.

Dave Finlay may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

Dave Finlay has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Dave Finlay out for help, sympathy or advice. Dave Finlay is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Dave Finlay does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Dave Finlay is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Dave Finlay possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Dave Finlay will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Dave Finlay does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Dave Finlay wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Dave Finlay appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Dave Finlay is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Dave Finlay feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Dave Finlay to be able to deeply respect his partner. Dave Finlay looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for him. Dave Finlay is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon Square Neptune

Venus in Libra

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Saturn