He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Béla should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Lugosi often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Lugosi's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Béla Lugosi insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Béla does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Béla Lugosi feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Lugosi gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Béla Lugosi makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Béla Lugosi needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.
He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Béla Lugosi insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.
In love relationships, Béla Lugosi seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Béla, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Béla Lugosi supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Béla that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Béla Lugosi is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Béla is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Lugosi places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Béla Lugosi feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
His attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Béla Lugosi loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. He may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 11th house
Moon Trine Pluto
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 9th house
Venus Opposition Jupiter/Neptune