challenges and difficulties
Dave Evans takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Dave enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Dave Evans also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Dave Evans has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Dave limits himself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in himself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Dave Evans difficult to get to know intimately, as Evans tends to distance himself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Dave Evans takes his ideals and dreams very seriously and goes through periods of fervent dedication to a lofty ideal or vision. Dave has the ability to acquire true spiritual or imaginative insight, but he can also become so involved in his imaginative, idealistic pursuits that he looses perspective and develops feelings of alienation and isolation.
Dave Evans becomes tense and upset rather easily. He becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In his eagerness to see his inspirations materialize, Evans is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving his goals. His occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Dave wants to go his own way and tends to withdraw into himself. He prefers to be alone and tends to cut himself off from other people. Dave Evans could be a bit too serious and conservative.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Dave Evans instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Dave Evans needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Dave Evans' path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Evans' actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Evans' life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Evans' ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress he is likely to become overly focused on himself and his own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Evans' focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Dave Evans needs to strike a balance between doing for himself and doing for others, by discovering how Evans' unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Evans' inner, personal life and his career or involvement with the world at large that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Dave Evans needs to focus attention on his home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Dave Evans back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Evans' intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Conjunct Neptune
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Opposition N. Node/MC
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury