approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Dave's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Dave Evans comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Dave Evans - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Dave Evans" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Dave a little better. This page describes the disguise Evans wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Dave Evans will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Dave has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Dave Evans very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Evans is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Dave Evans will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Evans' politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Dave Evans appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Evans is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Dave possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Dave Evans - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Dave Evans does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Dave.
Others see Dave Evans as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Evans shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Dave Evans usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Dave Evans comes across to others as intelligent, alert, articulate, knowledgeable, and communicative. He is quite curious and interested in the people and events around him, and cannot resist commenting about them.
Evans also needs to be busy and active, and he moves quickly. Dave Evans also appears to be restless. Keeping his mind or hands occupied helps with that.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Mercury Sextile Asc.