His gift of gab (described in the previous chapter), combined with his need for relationships and togetherness (discussed in the following paragraphs), makes Darby Crash a real "people person". He seems to need an ongoing, incessant dialogue! Indecisiveness can be a real problem for Darby Crash since he sees many sides to an issue and always solicits the opinions of others before acting.
Harmony and balance are his keynotes. Darby Crash instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and he is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Darby does all he can to avoid conflict and discord. His spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and he often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Crash since he can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make his own decisions. Crash will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. He prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on his own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Darby Crash, and he has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Darby Crash invests a great deal of his energy in personal love relationships and he is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Darby Crash seeks a partner who is his equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. He makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and he enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Crash perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Darby Crash appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in his personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to him. If Darby Crash fights about anything, it is often about something he feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Darby. He believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Darby Crash also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Crash dresses and furnishes his home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to him.
He is a private person and inclined to withdraw in very public and impersonal social settings. Darby Crash prefers to work at home or in a very personal small business.
Crash invests a lot of his creative energy into his home, family relationships, and his inner life.
Darby Crash tends to see things from his perspective only and to be rather subjective. He also enjoys talking and expressing his views but does not always listen as well. Darby Crash has a clear mind, a love of learning and new experiences, and he needs constant mental stimulation and activity.
He is a positive, vital, energetic and active go-getter. He enjoys competition, and his initiative and self-confidence make Darby Crash a winner.
Crash is capable of extraordinary physical or mental efforts to gain success and achieve something that will bring him recognition and respect. Darby Crash has a strong need for authority and power over others and is likely to perform better in a leading position.
Darby Crash has a sensitive physique, is impressionable and prone to external influences. Darby should guard against the tendency to escape through drugs, alcohol etc. His imagination is very vivid and Crash is likely to dream of big things.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Gemini and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 4th house
Sun Conjunct Mercury
Sun Trine Mars
Sun Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto
Sun Conjunct Neptune/Pluto