D. H. Lawrence
in Relationships

His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. D. H. Lawrence is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, D. H. Lawrence is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to David Herbert, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.

D. H. Lawrence frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.

Lawrence identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

No matter how he appears on the surface, D. H. Lawrence has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to David Herbert's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Lawrence is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. D. H. Lawrence tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. D. H. Lawrence becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

D. H. Lawrence possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy, consideration, and a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so much, D. H. Lawrence will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. David Herbert does not like to dwell on controversial or emotionally difficult subjects, and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, D. H. Lawrence wants an intellectual peer, an equal, and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy, and subtlety. D. H. Lawrence appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with a coarse, blunt type of person.

D. H. Lawrence often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to David Herbert. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. D. H. Lawrence may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for D. H. Lawrence - having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.

He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is much tension in his love relationships - often because D. H. Lawrence puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient about having his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance, and sex is endlessly fascinating for D. H. Lawrence and he is not happy without a love partner. Lawrence can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.

It is absolutely essential for D. H. Lawrence not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. David Herbert tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that D. H. Lawrence will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 12th house

Moon Conjunct Venus

Moon Square Mars

Venus in Libra

Venus in 12th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Quincunx Neptune