challenges and difficulties
Sellecca both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting herself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Connie, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Connie Sellecca is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Sellecca.
She is serious-minded and may have difficulty making light social conversation or participating in friendly, personal interchanges.
Connie Sellecca tries to be strictly accurate and she is critical of people who exaggerate or talk on subjects they really know little about. Sellecca withholds her thoughts and opinions until she has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Connie's silence discomforts others.
Her mental concentration is very good but her breadth of understanding may not be.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Connie Sellecca instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Connie Sellecca needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Connie Sellecca to become distracted from her path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to her. Connie Sellecca needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Connie directs her attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", she is apt to dabble, scatter her energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for her life and aligning her daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Sellecca's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward her personal development.
The arena she is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Connie Sellecca should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials she feels she possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Connie Sellecca back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Sellecca's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow her energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
The need to be first all of the time and demonstrate an aggressive or bossy attitude, impatience or irritability; an over-eagerness to use force or violence to gain advantage and the tendency to resort to fighting or using confrontation too quickly.
Her conversations with others tend to be lively and productive but could also easily turn into arguments. The subject of Sellecca's discussions is likely to be about working on and incorporating educational matters.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 3rd house
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Mars
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Mars