Gil Gerard
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Gil Gerard inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Gil wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Gerard lavishes on those he cares about. Gil Gerard has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Gil Gerard hates emotional games and dishonesty.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Gil Gerard cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Gil Gerard has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Gil takes risks on impulse or whim.

He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Gil Gerard cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Gerard's motto.

Gil Gerard craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Gil Gerard to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Gerard. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Gerard likes it that way.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Gil Gerard values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Gil desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Gerard, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Gil Gerard appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Gerard is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Gil Gerard thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Gil Gerard possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Gil may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Gil Gerard may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 5th house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon Square Uranus

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Quincunx Jupiter