approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Connie's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Connie Sellecca comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Connie Sellecca - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Connie Sellecca" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Connie a little better. This page describes the disguise Sellecca wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Ferociously proud and somewhat vain, Connie Sellecca likes to be impressive and to be considered special and unique. She is not timid, meek, or self-effacing, and is rarely content with staying in the background or in a subordinate position. She is a natural leader, and does not take orders from others very well. Sellecca must have something of her own, something creative - be it a business, a project, a home or whatever - that she can develop and manage according to her own will and vision. Whatever Connie does, she does it in a unique, dramatic, individual way. She likes to put her own personal stamp on it.
Connie Sellecca also has a very strong sense of dignity, self-respect, and personal honor and is deeply offended if someone treats her in a humiliating or dishonorable way. Sellecca will rarely confront the offender - she is too proud to do so - but she will lose her affection and respect for them. Connie dislikes pettiness and hates to be snubbed or ignored.
Sellecca admires others who are strong individuals like herself. When Connie Sellecca befriends someone, Sellecca is tremendously loyal, sincere, and willing to go to extraordinary lengths to make that person happy. She is very giving and generous, but her gifts are never anonymous - Connie expects recognition and appreciation for them. She also expects the intense loyalty that she offers to her dear ones to be reciprocated. However, Connie Sellecca often has trouble developing relationships with people who are as strong as herself, for she does not really cooperate or share the leading role very easily. If she is not in the leading role, she aspires to be and will compete with the person who is.
Connie Sellecca has great heart and courage, and people often look to her for strength, encouragement, and affirmation. Connie always puts her best face forward and rarely allows others to see her hurting, disheartened, or vulnerable. Connie Sellecca also has a very strong need for love, admiration, appreciation, and praise, although she does not like others to realize just how important it is to her.
Her outlook on life tends to be very personal and rather self-centered. Her own self-expression, self-actualization and self-realization interest Connie more than anything else. Connie Sellecca feels that if she does her best where she is, the rest of the world will take care of itself.
She is extremely willful, but she often achieves her desires in a quiet, secretive, or manipulative way. She may be intensely charismatic and wield considerable influence over others, or she may be attracted to similarly powerful, fascinating personalities. Connie Sellecca tends to go to extremes in whatever she does, to be compulsive, and she is driven by a sense of mission or destiny. Connie does not take anything at face value and is always digging beneath the surface for the deeper meaning or real motivations of others.
Connie Sellecca comes across to others as intelligent, alert, articulate, knowledgeable, and communicative. She is quite curious and interested in the people and events around her, and cannot resist commenting about them.
Sellecca also needs to be busy and active, and she moves quickly. Connie Sellecca also appears to be restless. Keeping her mind or hands occupied helps with that.
She is assertive and bold. Connie Sellecca is willing to be the first person to speak up and make her position known, and to strike out on her own if necessary. Connie generally gets along better with men than with women because her approach is quite direct and sometimes tactless and insensitive as well. She can be a bit too forceful. However, Connie Sellecca's boldness is her calling card, and most people feels that she can at least be trusted to be honest with them.
Connie Sellecca tends to blend in with and take on the characteristics of the people in her surroundings, and may thus not make a powerful individual statement of her own. She may project an aura of glamour or "make-believe", and enjoy trying on different personalities at different times.
She may find it difficult to get ahead because Connie lacks the vitality to do so. Connie Sellecca tends to wait for better conditions and has the desire to accomplish a lot without straining herself too much. Quite often, though, her plans just seem to hang in the air.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Pluto Conjunct Asc.
Mercury Sextile Asc.
Mars Sextile Asc.
Neptune Sextile Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Mars/Neptune