Cole Porter
in Relationships

Cole Porter responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Porter often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Cole Porter must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Cole's need for times of withdrawal.

Cole Porter is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Cole Porter takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Porter works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Cole, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.

Cole Porter genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support him. It is relatively easy for Cole Porter to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in his life. Children are very important to Porter also.

Cole Porter craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Cole Porter to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Porter. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Porter likes it that way.

Cole Porter has a great interest in everything and everyone around him and is constantly looking for people with whom he can establish deep inner relationships. His judgments are based on his personal feelings and he has a strong need to be with others.

Cole Porter tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Cole may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.

He is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and he tries to suppress the jealousy he may feel. Cole Porter may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making him a bit hard and unyielding in later life.

In love relationships, Cole Porter is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Cole enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Cole Porter responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Cole is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Porter places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Cole Porter feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

His nature is harmonious and Cole radiates happiness so that everyone around him will be in good spirits. His taste is likely to be elegant and he has a strong desire to surround himself with beauty. Cole Porter may be interested in fashion, hair-styling or other beauty-related fields.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 10th house

Moon Sextile Venus

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Asc.

Moon Conjunct Saturn/Neptune

Moon Conjunct Saturn/Pluto

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Moon/Jupiter