Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for T.D. Jakes only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Jakes.
Thomas Dexter has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. T.D. Jakes has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for T.D. Jakes to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. T.D. Jakes has a great deal of emotional depth.
T.D. Jakes often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Jakes thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Thomas Dexter is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. T.D. Jakes has good psychological insight into others.
Sensitive and sentimental, T.D. Jakes is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Jakes to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. T.D. Jakes seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Thomas Dexter likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Jakes is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. T.D. Jakes thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Sensitive and compassionate, Jakes tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Thomas Dexter has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Thomas Dexter is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 3rd house
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 11th house
Venus Trine Neptune