challenges and difficulties
Christy Hemme takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Christy enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Christy Hemme also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Christy may be plagued by fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death. She strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for her.
On another level entirely, Christy Hemme is very careful about joining forces, and especially her material resources, with others. Hemme wants to keep her own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Her aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Christy Hemme pursues her aims in a systematic, disciplined and thorough manner, and she is willing to take her time, advancing slowly and steadily toward her goal.
Sometimes Christy Hemme underestimates what is possible, and holds herself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
When she is with others, Christy Hemme may often suddenly become inhibited. She is inclined to be afraid of confrontations and probably will avoid group activities as much as possible.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Christy Hemme instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Christy Hemme needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Christy Hemme's path lies in her development as an individual, the discovery of her own strengths and joys, the capacity to express her uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Hemme's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Christy Hemme is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, she may believe that striving to do her personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Christy should let go of this notion. Finding her own center and doing what gives her delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Christy Hemme can offer the world at large.
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Christy Hemme to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Christy Hemme has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 8th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Uranus/N. Node
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 7th house