Christy Hemme
in Relationships

Christy Hemme responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Hemme often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Christy Hemme must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Christy's need for times of withdrawal.

Christy Hemme is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Christy Hemme takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.

Christy Hemme has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Hemme also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Christy, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Christy Hemme tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if she perceives a threat to her family or home or personal safety, she can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Christy feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Christy Hemme also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and she is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Hemme to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Christy Hemme may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in her relationships.

She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Christy Hemme is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Christy Hemme also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Christy Hemme craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Christy loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Hemme.

She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Christy's nature and Christy Hemme feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Hemme. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Christy Hemme has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

Christy's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Christy Hemme is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Hemme is to being left out or unappreciated.

Intimacy does not come easily to Christy Hemme and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Hemme does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Christy Hemme needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

When it comes to love relationships, Hemme is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Christy Hemme has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Christy acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Christy, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Christy Hemme tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Hemme's life.

Christy Hemme has a passionate nature and a strong expression of her sexuality. Her creative energies also are strong and she may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 6th house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 8th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Sextile Uranus

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mars