Ben Harper
in Relationships
Ben does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Ben Harper would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Ben Harper avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and he is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs plenty of mental stimulation and he feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and mental interests. Conversation is very important to Harper. The strong, silent type of partner is not for him.
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Ben Harper cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
Ben Harper has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Ben takes risks on impulse or whim.
Ben Harper feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved, and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.
He is easygoing, agreeable, and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin again on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he overdoes sometimes his generosity. Ben Harper often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", and so becomes lazy and lackadaisical.
He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Harper can be uncompromising at times. Ben Harper also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.
Ben Harper is in harmony with himself and the world around him and is guided by his instincts. The parental type, he would like to solve everyone's problems. Very warm, sympathetic and cordial, Ben radiates harmony wherever he goes.
Ben Harper possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy, consideration, and a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so much, Ben Harper will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Ben does not like to dwell on controversial or emotionally difficult subjects, and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Ben Harper wants an intellectual peer, an equal, and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy, and subtlety. Ben Harper appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with a coarse, blunt type of person.
Ben is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Harper places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Ben Harper feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
He is big-hearted and openhanded with both his money and affections and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Ben's nature and Ben Harper feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Harper. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Ben Harper has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble, and idealistic.
His artistic feeling or perception gives Ben Harper a strong creative potential. Ben has the ability to think in forms or shapes and also to tune into rhythms such as dancing, gymnastics and song. His physical coordination could be excellent as well.
His attraction to someone may come very suddenly and Ben Harper loves the excitement of new love relationships. But his attachments may be less than conventional, Harper changes them quickly, and he is likely to have many affairs. He may not be very selective in his contacts.
It is hard for Ben Harper to express his feelings and emotions to other people. He may feel especially inhibited in matters of love relationships and could feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. Ben Harper tends to feel lonely, even when he is in the company of others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 5th house
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Opposition Sun/Mars
Moon Opposition Asc./MC
Venus in Libra
Venus in 9th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Uranus
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus
Venus Opposition Saturn/N. Node
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