approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Carnie's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Carnie Wilson comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Carnie Wilson - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Carnie Wilson" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Carnie a little better. This page describes the disguise Wilson wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Carnie Wilson will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Carnie has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Carnie Wilson very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Wilson is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Carnie Wilson will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Wilson's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Carnie Wilson appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Wilson is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Carnie possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Carnie Wilson - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Carnie Wilson does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Carnie.
Others see Carnie Wilson as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Wilson shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Carnie Wilson usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Her desire to love and be loved is very much apparent, very much on the surface, and Carnie Wilson is known for her personal charm and affectionate nature. She may also seem overly dependent on the approval and appreciation of others.
Wilson projects a feeling of broad-mindedness, generosity, and beneficence, a sense that she is someone others should listen to and treat with respect. Because Carnie Wilson generally makes such a favorable impression on people, many doors are open to her, and she may appear to be somewhat luckier than other people. This is primarily due to the confidence that Carnie Wilson emanates.
Carnie often comes across to others more abruptly or even antagonistically than necessary to achieve her aims. And naturally, if people perceive that she is trying to compete with them or run them over, some of them will strongly resist Carnie Wilson and her objectives. Wilson might be more successful if she tones herself down a bit and shows some consideration, without completely sacrificing her own needs and wants.
She is very sensitive to her surroundings and inclined to be easily influenced by others. Carnie Wilson tends to avoid confrontations, discussions or arguments for fear that she cannot stand up to them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Venus Opposition Asc.
Jupiter Sextile Asc.
Mars Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Uranus/Neptune