She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Uma should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Thurman often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Thurman's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Uma Thurman insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Uma does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Uma Thurman feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.
Uma Thurman has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Thurman also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Uma, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
Powerful and complex emotions stir Uma Thurman, and her emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until Uma does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that she does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and Uma Thurman needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding herself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve her can be tremendously liberating, if Uma Thurman is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.
In a love relationship, Uma Thurman is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Uma likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Uma Thurman becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Uma Thurman's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Uma Thurman needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Thurman finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Uma Thurman very happy. Uma wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Uma Thurman may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Thurman is a natural host or diplomat.
Uma Thurman is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Uma Thurman pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.
Her tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Uma Thurman possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Uma may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Uma Thurman may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
She is open and progressive in her attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way she expresses her love. Uma Thurman is always willing to experiment and try anything new that her partner suggests, and she enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Uma and her partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Thurman's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Uma Thurman tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Uma frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Uma Thurman also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
She is inclined to do everything with love and may even be in love with her profession. At times Uma Thurman is apt to consider her work as a substitute for a partner, but she could also show some narcissistic tendencies.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 6th house
Moon Quincunx Pluto
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mars/MC