Playboy Buddy Rose challenges and difficulties
Playboy Buddy Rose takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Buddy Rose enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Playboy Buddy Rose also fears entrapment in close relationships.
His childhood or his relationships with his parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Buddy Rose from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Playboy Buddy Rose felt deprived in some manner, whether or not he actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of his needs and feelings may typify his early life, at least as Rose remembers it. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Playboy Buddy Rose needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Buddy Rose accomplish this.
Playboy Buddy Rose takes his ideals and dreams very seriously and goes through periods of fervent dedication to a lofty ideal or vision. Buddy Rose has the ability to acquire true spiritual or imaginative insight, but he can also become so involved in his imaginative, idealistic pursuits that he looses perspective and develops feelings of alienation and isolation.
Somewhat shy, Buddy Rose finds it difficult to relate to people and tends to withdraw from others. Since it is hard for Playboy Buddy Rose to establish relationships, he would rather be by himself. Buddy Rose likes everything simple or plain and prefers a more humble and secluded life.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Playboy Buddy Rose instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Playboy Buddy Rose needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Playboy Buddy Rose's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Rose's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Rose's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Rose's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress he is likely to become overly focused on himself and his own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Rose's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Playboy Buddy Rose needs to strike a balance between doing for himself and doing for others, by discovering how Rose's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Playboy Buddy Rose to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Playboy Buddy Rose has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
Buddy Rose has an inspiring, trustworthy and courteous manner, bringing lots of friends and acquaintances with similar interests into his life. His parental home is probably very harmonious and Playboy Buddy Rose feels strongly connected with his family.
Playboy Buddy Rose has a strong desire to share his opinions with others and is inclined to seek out people who have the same ideas that he has. He may enjoy studying and developing his intellectual interests with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Conjunct Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Asc.
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Moon
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/MC
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