approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Brenda's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Brenda Vacarro comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Brenda Vacarro - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Brenda Vacarro" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Brenda a little better. This page describes the disguise Vacarro wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Brenda Vacarro has a sensible and realistic outlook on life and her two feet are always planted firmly on the ground (though she may, on occasion, have her head in the clouds). Others often see Vacarro as a rock of strength, solid, reliable, dependable, and constant. She is, in fact, amazingly consistent for she possesses great powers of endurance and does not like to make changes or adjustments to her regular routine. Brenda does things deliberately and methodically and does not easily accommodate the unexpected. Though she has a gentle, even soft, appearance, Brenda Vacarro is enormously strong-willed and stubborn. She follows her own pace and refuses to be rushed or pushed into anything before she feels sure about it. Vacarro can be coaxed and persuaded by charm, beauty, love or affection - but never forced. She will not fight either, but simply stubbornly resist any attempt at being coerced into doing something she does not want to do.
When Vacarro has a purpose, she is extremely fixed, immovable, and bullheaded about it. Her obstinacy is often infuriating to others, especially since it takes much provocation to make her flare up or respond to their anger. Brenda Vacarro appears calm, unruffled, and unemotional most of the time, but behind her easygoing and peaceable appearance there lies great strength. When it comes to a contest of wills, Brenda often wins simply due to her relentless persistence and her ability to outlast just about anyone. Another reason for her reluctance to make changes is her very strong need for security. Brenda is most comfortable in stable, relatively unchanging conditions and she also has a strong desire for tangible security - a home of her own, money in the bank, job security, etc. The flip side of Vacarro's hankering for permanence is that she easily gets caught up in a rut and will stay in a familiar situation (e.g. job, marriage) long after it has lost its vitality and interest.
Brenda Vacarro has a keen appreciation of the natural world and she derives great joy from the down-to-earth comforts of the physical world, with its myriad of delights. She is quite sensual in a very natural, wholesome way and she knows how to enjoy herself. Vacarro is appealing to the opposite sex in an earthy way. She is also a great lover of beauty and her tastes are basically conventional or classic - not modern.
Vacarro draws much of her energy and sense of self from her relationships with others. She is inextricably connected with the significant others in her life; Brenda Vacarro may feel at a loss without them, even if she appears to be the powerful or dominant person in the relationship. Brenda appears self-assured - as long as she is secure in the important relationships in her life.
Her emotional responses, feelings, and prejudices come across to others quite clearly and Brenda Vacarro could be seen as a rather moody, inconsistent creature. On the other hand, she is not impersonal or removed, so people are drawn to confide in her. At times Vacarro may wish she was not so easy to read.
At times her feisty spirit, aggressiveness, and a too-forceful approach get Brenda into trouble. Brenda Vacarro tends to take offense when none was intended. She may be viewed as a troublemaker, an upstart, or an egotist with little concern for others. Brenda Vacarro needs to moderate her temper to avoid constant irritation with those in her environment.
There is an air of universal sympathy, gentleness, and nonjudgmental acceptance about Brenda Vacarro which draws people in need to her. Because she has a good deal of intuitive insight or psychic perceptiveness, Brenda is able to say or do just the right thing for them. Brenda Vacarro needs to beware of fostering dependency in those people, however.
Vacarro projects a feeling of broad-mindedness, generosity, and beneficence, a sense that she is someone others should listen to and treat with respect. Because Brenda Vacarro generally makes such a favorable impression on people, many doors are open to her, and it may seem that she Brenda somehow luckier than other people. Mostly this is due to the confidence that Brenda Vacarro emanates.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Sun Opposition Asc.
Moon Square Asc.
Mars Square Asc.
Neptune Trine Asc.
Jupiter Sextile Asc.