Bono
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Bono trusts and opens himself to very few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Bono Vox.
Paul Hewson has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Bono has a nasty habit of holding on to past hurts, resentments, and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Bono to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Bono has a great deal of emotional depth.
Though he wants close relationships very much, Bono often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Bono Vox is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
He needs love, affection, and nurturing in his relationships, and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Paul Hewson is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". There is a rather childish dependency on loved ones which can make Bono Vox cling to them, or to be very uncomfortable with any conflict which could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Bono, one that can be enormously satisfying if he can achieve it - and a source of great sadness if he cannot.
Generally sunny and optimistic, Bono has a cheering effect on those around him. Paul Hewson likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential ingredients for his emotional well-being.
He is a sensitive soul, a dreamer, very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Bono often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Bono is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Paul Hewson has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are apt to be incredibly close and intense. Bono may be easily manipulated too, when it comes to one of these important relationships, because he is so emotionally invested in it.
Bono has a very rich emotional life and the ability to do the right thing at the right moment. Through an appeal to the feelings, he is able to influence the public; Bono Vox may have the desire to work in some capacity to bring about social improvements.
His emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. He may have a sudden desire to liberate himself from the stress and may release his tension towards women. Bono could also feel lonely and depressed at times.
In love relationships, Bono is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensually oriented and needs lots of touching and physical affection. Paul Hewson enjoys being pampered with a good meal, loving massage, or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover, very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of the one he loves. Bono is tremendously responsive to beauty and physical appearances, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.
Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to Bono, and he has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Bono Vox and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.
He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Bono appreciates artistic people.
Bono appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Bono will rarely put himself out too much in order to do so. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
Bono tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem to be. Gullible, romantic, and rather easily seduced, Paul Hewson frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind which he then projects onto the person, only to discover later that this person never really possessed the lovely qualities he endowed them with. Bono also confuses love with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", and thus set himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of much devotion to a spiritual path, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
Bono loves deeply, passionately, and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional influence on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Bono Vox may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 8th house
Moon Opposition Venus
Moon Sextile Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Sextile Pluto
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Uranus
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 3rd house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Trine Pluto
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