challenges and difficulties
Bobby has difficulty asserting his will and desires directly and openly. He may also suppress his anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in himself are important tasks for Brown.
He is serious-minded and may have difficulty making light social conversation or participating in friendly, personal interchanges.
Bobby Brown tries to be strictly accurate and he is critical of people who exaggerate or talk on subjects they really know little about. Brown withholds his thoughts and opinions until he has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Bobby's silence discomforts others.
His mental concentration is very good but his breadth of understanding may not be.
Bobby Brown has a tendency to be too critical of himself. He may be plagued by feelings of guilt about some past events, leading to further self-doubt. Bobby must learn to handle his frustration, depression and discontentment and try to overcome his lack of self-confidence.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Bobby Brown instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Bobby Brown needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Bobby Brown - so much so that he seeks them out at his own expense. When he is under stress, Brown tends to look outside himself for approval or answers, and he leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge his own path through life is a key factor in his self-development.
Bobby Brown is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about his intentions or desires, and he can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Brown's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Bobby Brown needs to cultivate his ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on his own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in his dealings with money, financial security, tangible assets and possessions that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above are ones Bobby Brown needs to integrate in tangible ways: how he makes a living, building assets and a secure material base, what he does with the resources he has. Bobby Brown should try to avoid over involvement or entanglements with other people's money matters, legal business, and personal affairs.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Bobby Brown back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Bobby Brown tends to over-rely on luck or grace, living for tomorrow and gambling. Bobby is overconfident and tends to overextend himself and take on more than is humanly possible. Bobby is often dogmatic about his philosophy of life or religious beliefs.
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Bobby Brown seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
The following are specific activities that will support Bobby Brown in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Brown, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
He needs to give and receive affection, love and pleasure (primarily with the qualities described previously). Bobby Brown has to learn to respond to, appreciate and create beauty, art, harmonious surroundings and relationships. He needs to be aware of aesthetics and to do things in a gracious, pleasing manner. Bobby Brown has to start enjoying life, nurturing friendships and cultivating his ability to love and to receive love.
Bobby Brown tends to have far-reaching associations and has a strong desire to be involved with people of high society. He is likely to achieve great success through joint ventures with others and could do well in some political activity.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Opposition Moon/Mars
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 2nd house
N. Node Opposition Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Venus
N. Node Opposition Jupiter/Pluto