Bobby Brown
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Bobby Brown rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Brown's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Brown may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Bobby difficult to live with. Bobby Brown needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

Though he wants close relationships very much, Bobby Brown often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Brown is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.

Brown is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game, or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like a good time to him. In fact, Bobby Brown needs to do these things or otherwise he gets crabby.

Although Brown gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Bobby Brown to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Brown can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Bobby Brown puts up subtle walls and distance himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Brown may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Bobby Brown might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Bobby Brown seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Bobby has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Brown can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.

Bobby Brown has a strong sense of duty, is serious and tends to see everything on the dark side. Bobby should guard against emotional inhibition and depression. He prefers to lead a secluded, modest and simple life.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Bobby Brown enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Bobby wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

For Bobby Brown, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Bobby values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Bobby Brown needs to beware of.

Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Bobby Brown cannot or will not hold onto it. Bobby Brown has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Brown's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Bobby freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Brown could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.

Brown also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Bobby Brown just wants to have a good time.

Bobby Brown is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Bobby is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Bobby Brown professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Brown a lot of breathing space.

Sensitive and compassionate, Brown tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Bobby has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Bobby is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 8th house

Moon Sextile Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon Conjunct Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Saturn

Venus in Aries

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Opposition Jupiter

Venus Opposition Uranus

Venus Trine Neptune