Although Wilder may seem quite poised, even-tempered, balanced and harmonious (as mentioned in the previous chapter), he is actually rather moody and emotional. Inside, he is much more subjective and biased in his attitudes than his fair-minded, reasonable demeanor may imply.
Billy has powerful emotional attachments to the past, his family, his childhood, places he associates with safety and security, and his beginnings. It is very important to Wilder to maintain a connection with his roots and heritage and keep family bonds strong. Loyal, devoted, and sentimental, Wilder tends to cling to whatever is dear to him - be it a person, a familiar place, or a cherished possession.
He is sympathetic, nurturing, supportive and very sensitive to the emotional needs of other people. Billy likes to be needed and to care for others, and he often worries about the people he loves. Billy Wilder has a very strong need for a sense of belonging and acceptance, and much of his life centers on his home. He is more concerned about people and their feelings than with power, achievement, or position in society. Kindness, consideration and tenderness are more meaningful to Billy Wilder than any sort of honor the world can bestow.
He is primarily emotional and his views are often dominated by his feelings and his own personal, subjective experiences, rather than reason, logic or abstract principles. It is difficult for him to judge situations fairly and objectively because his personal sympathies and loyalties usually factor in. Billy Wilder takes things very personally and sometimes builds a wall around himself to shield himself from pain and rejection. Billy Wilder feels rather shy and vulnerable at heart. He also tends to be moody and experiences frequent mood swings. Billy Wilder needs to have a place and time in his life to withdraw, introspect, dream and replenish himself; otherwise Billy Wilder becomes cranky and unhappy with those around him.
Billy Wilder functions in an instinctive, irrational manner and likes to immerse himself in creative activities where he can express his feelings, imagination and instincts. Wilder often loves to cook, since it can be both creative and a way to nurture and nourish others. Billy Wilder also has a great affinity for music, because it evokes and communicates feelings that may be difficult or impossible to put into words.
His compassion, sensitivity, and imagination are Wilder's strong points. His faults include an inability to let go of the past and move forward, clannishness and prejudice, and a tendency for self-pity when facing hardship.
World travel, foreign cultures, and studies which expand his intellectual horizons and broaden his understanding of the world are very attractive to Wilder.
Billy Wilder has a philosophical turn of mind and is concerned with seeking answers to the big questions of life or getting the overview of any situation. Abstract concepts and/or plans for the future occupy his mind much of the time.
The above description of Billy Wilder is so deeply ingrained that he has little objectivity and often little appreciation for other, different ways of approaching life. Billy Wilder tends to be one-sided. There is little ambiguity in his makeup and he generally knows what he wants and what will make him happy.
He is assertive, energetic, active, courageous and vital. Billy Wilder has a very strong physical drive that expresses itself as sexuality and passion, a desire to compete with others, and a tendency to fight. Billy Wilder has a victorious spirit and the will to win.
His emotions are very intense and Billy Wilder is excited quite easily. Love is very important to him and he is constantly seeking emotional fulfillment, but he will not waste time with casual relationships.
Billy Wilder feels physically strong and fit and has a healthy sex-life. His actions are governed by a strong sense of honor and integrity. Wilder is ambitious with a talent for organizing and a strong desire to succeed, insuring by that his professional success.
His vitality is very strong and he is likely to be a workaholic. If Billy Wilder is not careful, he may work so hard that he becomes exhausted, leaving himself open to physical breakdown. Billy Wilder also has a strong drive to win and to dominate others.
He is creative and talented, but must develop self-discipline to channel his energies productively. Billy Wilder may feel that everything is going to be all right, that he cannot lose and may take risks by gambling or speculating, which could result in disappointments.
Billy Wilder has a sensitive physique, is impressionable and prone to external influences. Billy should guard against the tendency to escape through drugs, alcohol etc. His imagination is very vivid and Wilder is likely to dream of big things.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Libra and Sun in Cancer
Sun in Cancer
Sun in 9th house
Sun Conjunct Moon
Sun Conjunct Mars
Sun Conjunct Moon/Pluto
Sun Conjunct Mars/Jupiter
Sun Conjunct Mars/Pluto
Sun Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune
Sun Conjunct Neptune/Pluto