Billy Wilder responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Wilder often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Billy Wilder must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Billy's need for times of withdrawal.
Billy Wilder is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Billy Wilder takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
Wilder works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Billy, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
Billy Wilder feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Billy may not realize how competitive he is.
His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Wilder received was erratic and unreliable at best. Billy Wilder has had to move a lot, or Wilder's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Billy was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Billy Wilder may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.
Billy Wilder often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Wilder, both emotionally and physically.
Although Billy Wilder was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Billy's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Billy Wilder often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Billy Wilder is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
His feelings depend on the conditions in his environment and therefore Billy Wilder could be subject to moods. He is likely to have spiritual or life experiences that touch him deeply. Billy Wilder could also become involved in situations where others take advantage of him.
His emotional excitability is very strong and Wilder tends to be high-strung and impatient. Billy Wilder knows what he wants to accomplish, he forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for Billy Wilder to back down gracefully when he is confronted.
Billy Wilder seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Billy likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. He is guided by his feelings and seems to live in a world of his own.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Billy Wilder cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Billy wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Billy Wilder is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Billy Wilder craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Wilder enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Billy Wilder very happy. Billy wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Billy Wilder may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Wilder is a natural host or diplomat.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 10th house
Moon Conjunct Mars
Moon Opposition Uranus
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Conjunct Sun/Neptune
Moon Conjunct Mars/MC
Moon Conjunct Neptune/MC
Venus in Leo
Venus in 10th house