Though Mui may seem breezy, independent and freedom loving (as mentioned in the previous chapter), she is in fact not completely happy without a partner. She enjoys being on the move and exploring new territory, but wants a traveling companion! Mui yearns for fulfilling, yet non-restricting relationships.
Harmony and balance are her keynotes. Anita Mui instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and she is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Anita does all she can to avoid conflict and discord. Her spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and she often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Mui since she can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make her own decisions. Mui will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. She prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on her own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Anita Mui, and she has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Anita Mui invests a great deal of her energy in personal love relationships and she is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Anita Mui seeks a partner who is her equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. She makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and she enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Mui perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Anita Mui appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in her personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to her. If Anita Mui fights about anything, it is often about something she feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Anita. She believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Anita Mui also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Mui dresses and furnishes her home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to her.
Her career, reputation and public image are very important to Mui. Anita Mui has a strong desire to be influential or make her mark on the world. She is not satisfied with the personal sphere alone; her ambitions include making a major contribution and receiving broad recognition for her unique effort and gifts. Anita Mui may undervalue the personal or inner facet of life.
Anita Mui often feels that she is at cross purposes with herself, for her conscious intentions and desires conflict with her subconscious emotional needs and drives. She is torn in two different directions. Anita has difficulty satisfying both her need to be an individual and her need for caring relationships and a sense of belonging. Moreover, Anita sends out mixed messages so people do not always know how to respond to her or what Anita really wants, thereby creating confusion or conflict in close relationships.
Anita Mui aims high, dreams big, and has a tremendous sense of what she is capable of achieving. Overconfidence, grandiosity, lack of humility and/or extreme discontent in modest circumstances may be her faults. Generally, however, Mui's great expectations and enterprising spirit lead to success. Business, especially when there is an element of risk and speculation involved, is ideally suited to Anita.
However she also has a more somber side, which keeps Mui's optimism from becoming ungrounded or overblown. Anita Mui tends to seesaw between her faith, vision and high aspirations, and her caution and realism (or fear!). She cannot and does not rely on good luck or grace alone, and she accepts the need for hard work. Her skeptical or "somber" side is described below.
Realistic and practical, Anita Mui sets goals for herself that are modest enough for her to actually achieve. She is able to tackle long, difficult projects and see them through, for Mui possesses self-discipline, concentration and perseverance. Anita Mui also has a strong sense of responsibility and is very conscientious about fulfilling her obligations. Mui often does things because she feels it is expected of her.
Her vitality is very strong and she is likely to be a workaholic. If Anita Mui is not careful, she may work so hard that she becomes exhausted, leaving herself open to physical breakdown. Anita Mui also has a strong drive to win and to dominate others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Sagittarius and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 10th house
Sun Square Moon
Sun Opposition Jupiter
Sun aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Sun Trine Saturn
Sun Conjunct Mars/Pluto