challenges and difficulties
Anita has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave her feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with her peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Mui.
Her fears revolve around money and material security, and Anita Mui works very hard to ensure that her assets are solid. She may be very conservative, even stingy with her money because she is afraid there will not be enough. She may turn this fear around and become very shrewd about investments and financial matters.
Anita Mui strives and struggles a great deal with her ideals or spiritual aspirations. She may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or she may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, she can never quite divorce herself from her idealistic concerns.
She is likely to have very intense experiences in her emotional life and should guard against feelings of depression and inhibition. Anita Mui may be plagued by inner turmoil and obsessive ideas or notions.
Anita is inclined to be quite reserved and cautious in her relationships with others, yet she may also have an exaggerated regard for other peoples' views, thereby giving them more credence than they are worth.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Anita Mui instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Anita Mui needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Anita Mui is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Anita Mui's growth. Anita Mui needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Anita Mui to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Anita Mui has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
The following are specific activities that will support Anita Mui in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Mui, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Anita Mui should care for and nourish children, plants, pets or other people. She needs to make a home, create and sustain strong relationships with her family or a community that can support her and give her a sense of safety and belonging.
Anita Mui should develop her listening skills and deepen her understanding and appreciation of women and their perspective. Anita Mui has to learn to trust her own feelings, intuitions and emotional needs. She needs to care for herself in an accepting, non-judgmental way.
It is in Anita Mui's best interest to take all that is good and helpful from her past and use it in a new way. (If she is so inclined, Anita may want to explore the potential of past-life regression to tap into gifts she has already developed).
She is very socially minded and it is easy for Anita Mui to show her affection. Her family or community probably provided fertile ground for her development. Mui may love to show off a little and she thrives on being involved with others in joyful group activities.
Because of rigid and somewhat unpleasant family relationships, Anita Mui is inclined to seclude herself from others. She may prefer to live in archaic surroundings and may be interested in antiques.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 2nd house
Saturn Square Neptune
Saturn Opposition Moon/Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Moon
N. Node Opposition Sun/Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Saturn/Asc.