Alexandra Maria Lara
approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Alexandra's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Alexandra Maria Lara comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Alexandra Maria Lara - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Alexandra Maria Lara" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Alexandra a little better. This page describes the disguise Lara wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Cautious, prudent, and rather self-contained, she is a person who approaches life realistically and who is not inclined to take foolish chances or get carried away by the overly optimistic or idealistic schemes of starry-eyed dreamers. In fact, Alexandra Maria Lara frequently has a jaundiced view of such things. She is rather worldly-wise at a fairly young age, even somewhat of a cynic. Often the world does not seem like a safe, friendly place to Lara, and she tends to approach life in a guarded, conservative manner. She is generally calculated and careful, and is rarely spontaneous, fluid, open, and childlike.
She is pragmatic, shrewd, and an excellent strategist, carefully planning her moves for maximum effectiveness and advantage. She is willing to work long and persistently for what she wants and she often does things the hard way. Alexandra does not expect others to take care of her and sometimes refuses or simply does not seek any outside help. She is often very ambitious, but quietly so. There is nothing flamboyant or flashy about her approach. She is very responsible, conscientious, and concerned with her duties to others and how she comes across socially - her "rank" so to speak.
To others Alexandra Maria Lara seems mature, serious, quiet, reflective, and emotionally detached. Alexandra dislikes sloppy sentimentality and will not openly display her feelings, especially the more tender ones. Lara likes to always appear poised and in control; and she hates to show any weakness, vulnerability, or chinks in her armor.
Alexandra Maria Lara respects tradition and the time-honored way of doing things, and she feels that there is much to be gained from studying history and also by learning from older, more experienced people. A wise mentor or father is often Lara's guide in life, and she in turn develops a great deal of hard-earned wisdom, which she likes to impart to younger people.
Alexandra Maria Lara has a stern, authoritarian, no-nonsense aspect to her personality. She expects much from herself and may not give herself enough leeway to experiment and make mistakes.
She also tends to be rather close-fisted, to save and conserve her money and resources rather than spending or enjoying them. Alexandra Maria Lara spends money on things of quality and of lasting value, things which are good investments, but not frivolous, temporary pleasures. There is a bit of the ascetic in her. Alexandra exercises great self-discipline and self-control and she can "do without" very well. Her tastes are generally understated and simple.
Though she may have other, more colorful and imaginative sides, the face Lara shows the world is modest and rather conservative.
Her emotional responses, feelings and prejudices come across to others quite clearly and Alexandra Maria Lara could come across as rather moody and fickle. On the other hand, she is not impersonal or removed, so people are drawn to confide in her. At times Lara may wish she were not so easy to read.
There is an intense and somewhat secretive or guarded quality about Alexandra Maria Lara which may make people around her distinctly uncomfortable. They may feel that Alexandra is constantly monitoring their inner motives, and she probably is. Lara sees through anything phony, any false pretense - and she may or may not be above using others' Achilles' heels (which she perceives so clearly) against them. At times, however, Alexandra Maria Lara may be too suspicious and assign negative intentions to innocent people. Alexandra should avoid always looking on the dark side.
Alexandra Maria Lara can get by in life almost on her personality alone. There is a radiant, warm, attractive quality about Alexandra that others cannot help responding to favorably. Usually she appears confident and clear about who she is, and it is very difficult not to notice her or feel her influence when Lara is around.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon Square Asc.
Pluto Square Asc.
Sun Sextile Asc.